homemade lube: one self-test log (and the sober takeaway)
Homemade lube from body fluids — semen vs pre-cum as lube in one self-test log, what failed, what felt slick, and why store lube still wins for real play.
can you actually get pregnant from that? the myths people believe
A lot of pregnancy "rules" get passed around as fact during sex, and most of them are wrong in the direction that gets someone pregnant. Semen running back out, the pull-out move, "it's only the first time" — people lean on these like they're contraception. They aren't. Here's what the old wedding-night sex guides actually said about each one, in plain terms.
(This piece is about not getting pregnant when you don't want to. For the first-time nerves, the does-it-hurt question, and how to relax, that's the sister piece: First-Time Sex, Without the Tension.)
Does semen leaking out afterward mean you're safe?
No. This is the big one, and the reassurance is backwards.
