Most people read the box, plug it in, and skip the part that actually determines how the next session feels: aftercare.
The 20-minute window
The first 20 minutes after a session is when your nervous system decides whether the experience encodes as good or jarring. Skipping it teaches your body that intensity = abandonment.
What we recommend
- Water within the first 5 minutes — not optional, even if you don't feel thirsty.
- Warmth on the lower back for at least 10 minutes (blanket, heated pad, hot bath).
- Slow re-orientation — no screens for 15 minutes if you can swing it.
- One concrete piece of food. Something with salt and fat.
Then: post-clean, post-session check-in with your partner, store everything properly. The clean-up is aftercare.
